Navigate to the groups page by clicking Groups in the navigation bar.

Next, click to view your own groups by clicking on the link text for My Groups.

Once, you have successfully navigated to and chosen your group from which to approve new member requests to, click to go to the Members tab, and then click on the link text for See Waiting

From there you will be able to view anyone who has requested member to join your group.

To approve or reject any member who has requested to join, simply click to approve or reject their request that will display to the right of their profile and they will be granted membership to your group.

The below process outlines how to delete a message thread between yourself and another user:

Navigate to your Messages, by clicking the envelope icon located towards the top right side of the page

Go to the message thread in question that you want to delete and click the Delete text link in the upper right-hand corner of the message window.

A pop-up window will appear and you will be asked to confirm the deletion by selecting the blue Delete button again. After clicking the "Delete" button, the entire message will be deleted and unrecoverable.

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Browse to the member’s profile that you want to send a message to, and click the Send Message button located to the right of their profile image.

A pop-up window will display giving you a text field to type a message to that member. There is also a window to enter a subject line.

Click the blue Send Message button under the window and the message will be sent to that user.

Note: If you are not friends with a member, you will not able to send them a message.

To send a friend request to another member, go to their profile page and click the "ADD FRIEND" button to the right of their profile image to send them a friend request.

Friend Requesting Mutual Friends

You can also friend request members from your friend’s current friend list by going to their profile and clicking the Friends tab that is to the right of their profile image.