"If you don't like the punishment of tyranny along the way, you don't have
to continue along that way. There is a new route with attractive scenery
and a delightful final destination. For example, you may now believe you
are worried over another person's opinion of you. That is not the problem
at all. What bothers you is what _you_ think about what _he_ thinks. So the
tyrant is your own unnecessary self-concern, for what he thinks about you
has absolutely no relationship to your personal happiness. This kind of
realization can expel all mental tyrants."
100 Ways to Defeat Satan SOLVED The Mystery of Life, Chap. 7, p. 170 (Previous version) Chap. 7, p. 126 (Current version)