"Realize that understanding is everything. Some troubled people sought help
from a Wise Man. He instructed, "Never do anything with a problem except to
try to understand it. Don't try to win over anyone, don't angrily defend
yourself, don't fear the situation. You can understand, so pour all your
energies into this aim. An understood problem is no problem." Understanding
is the highest form of action you can perform. It makes you comfortable."
50 Ways To Get Help From God, # 23