Some of us spend decades and years building other's dreams to the extent that we forget our own GOD given dreams are worth considering as well and valuable to GOD.
GOD gives you permission to heal from the years of overcompensating for someone else's dysfunction and being a lifelong crutch to fulfil their vain ambitions.
You have His "Yes" to build your GOD given dreams and fulfil your GOD given calling in life. Some will get upset, some will get mad when you focus on your dreams, but GOD's favor is with you every step of the way to accomplish what He put inside of you.