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• HOLY GRIEF: FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT - JOY

  by Cinda Abbey November 27, 2021
  FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT - JOY  . . The second fruit of the Spirit is joy.  . . Bible verses about joy can help Christians who may be going through a difficult season as a reminder of calm happiness through faith in God. . . The biblical definition of joy says that joy is a feeling of good pl...
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• HOLY GRIEF - GRIEF DURING THE HOLIDAYS

  by Cinda Abbey November 24, 2021
  CAN I GET AN AMEN !!!GRIEF AND THE HOLIDAYSHello friends. Now that it's the beginning of the holidays (at least in the United States) it can also be a difficult time for those who are or have experienced a loss whether it's a current traumatic loss or a lingering past loss...What I have experienced ...
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• HOLY GRIEF: CHRIST-CENTERED HEALING FROM DEVASTATING LOSS

  by Cinda Abbey November 17, 2021
  FRUIT OF THE SPIRIT - LOVEGalatians 5:22 (ESV) – But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness,The first Fruit of the Spirit mentioned in Galatians 5:22 in the fruit of love. Though our feelings come and go, God's love for us does not.  – C. S....

• Holy Grief: Christ-Centered Healing From Devastating Loss group

  by Cinda Abbey October 27, 2021
  The Fruit of the “Holy” Spirit is an inspiration to me. It says in Galatians 5:22-23 (ESV):(22) But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, (23) gentleness, self-control;… There are several different interpretations of the Fruit of the Spirit bu...
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• HOLY GRIEF: CHRIST-CENTERED HEALING FROM DEVASTATING LOSS

  by Cinda Abbey October 14, 2021
  Hi everyone.  Please share your favorite scripture of healing from grief. Blessings to you all.
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• HOLY GRIEF: CHRIST-CENTERED HEALING FROM DEVASTATING LOSS

  by Cinda Abbey October 12, 2021
  Psalm 34:17-18 The righteous cry, and the LORD heareth, and delivereth them out of all their troubles.  18  The LORD is nigh unto them that are of a broken heart; and saveth such as be of a contrite spirit.
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• HOLY GRIEF: CHRIST-CENTERED HEALING FROM DEVASTATING LOSS

  by Cinda Abbey October 9, 2021
  The Lord is the one who goes ahead of you; He will be with you. He will not fail you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed. Deuteronomy 31:8

• HOLY GRIEF: CHRIST-CENTERED HEALING FROM DEVASTATING LOSS

  by Cinda Abbey October 5, 2021
  Grief can take many forms, from the death of a loved one to divorce, job loss, or chronic illness. But no matter what you—or your loved one—is facing, God’s Word promises He will comfort us in the midst of pain. If you or someone you know is hurting, we want to help you draw close to “the Father of ...
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• HOLY GRIEF-STRATEGY

  by Cinda Abbey August 18, 2021
  BIG NEWS !!! RECOVERY FROM DEVASTATING LOSS For those of you who don’t know this, I’ve spent the last few years trying, testing, and tracking the best ways to heal from grief, sorrow, and despair.  It’s really become my passion.  Now, here’s the big news...  I just finalized the...

• HOLY GRIEF: HEALING FROM DEVASTATING LOSS

  by Cinda Abbey August 9, 2021
  BIG NEWS !!! RECOVERY FROM DEVASTATING LOSS For those of you who don’t know this, I’ve spent the last few years trying, testing, and tracking the best ways to heal from grief, sorrow, and despair.  It’s really become my passion.  Now, here’s the big news...  I just finalized th...
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• HOLY GRIEF - Isaiah 61:1-3

  by Cinda Abbey August 9, 2021
  Isaiah 61:1-3   The Spirit of the Lord God is upon me, Because the Lord has anointed me To bring good news to the afflicted; He has sent me to bind up the brokenhearted, To proclaim liberty to captives And freedom to prisoners; To proclaim the favorable year of the Lord And the day of ...

• HOLY GRIEF: STATUS 1 - BIG NEWS!!!

  by Cinda Abbey July 27, 2021
  Status 1: Big News!  RECOVERY FROM DEVASTATING LOSS BIG NEWS!!! For those of you who don’t know this, I’ve spent the last few years trying, testing, and tracking the best ways to heal from grief, sorrow, and despair.  It’s really become my passion.  Now, here’s the big news...&...
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• HOLY GRIEF: ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE (PART 4)

  by Cinda Abbey July 18, 2021
  Part 4 : A much different perspective on grief and sorrow. What do you think? What have you experienced?Sorrow Not! Winning Over Grief and Sorrow by Kenneth Copeland, ©1989 Eagle Mountain International Church Inc. aka Kenneth Copeland Ministries, Kenneth Copeland Publications, Fort Worth TX.When I...
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• HOLY GRIEF

  by Cinda Abbey July 7, 2021
  Henry Ford Sandcastle (a quote concerning grief): "If you don't fill the void the enemy will."--------------------------- I lead Grieving Christians Toward a Compelling Life of Purpose, Filling the Void, and Building Emotional & Spiritual Strength.  For assistance in grief coaching please...
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• HOLY GRIEF : ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE PART 3

  by Cinda Abbey June 30, 2021
  Part 3 : A much different perspective on grief and sorrow. What do you think? What have you experienced? Sorrow Not! Winning Over Grief and Sorrow by Kenneth Copeland, 1989 Eagle Mountain International Church Inc. aka Kenneth Copeland Ministries, Kenneth Copeland Publications, Fort Worth TX. A...
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• HOLY GRIEF ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE PART 2

  by Cinda Abbey June 28, 2021
  Part 2: A much different perspective on grief and sorrow. What do you think? What have you experienced? Sorrow Not! Winning Over Grief and Sorrow by Kenneth Copeland, ©1989 Eagle Mountain International Church Inc. aka Kenneth. ... Grief and sorrow were part of the devastating, satanic barrage ...
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• HOLY GRIEF: ANOTHER PERSPECTIVE PART 1

  by Cinda Abbey June 23, 2021
  Part 1: A much different perspective on grief and sorrow. What do you think? What have you experienced? Sorrow Not! Winning Over Grief and Sorrow by Kenneth Copeland, ©1989 Eagle Mountain International Church Inc. aka Kenneth Copeland Ministries, Kenneth Copeland Publications, Fort Worth TX. E...
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• HOLY GRIEF

  by Cinda Abbey June 15, 2021

• HOLY GRIEF: HOW CAN I STOP GRIEVING?

  by Cinda Abbey June 14, 2021
  Kenneth Copeland Ministries, KCM.org, Question of the Day, July 20; published on 9/05/2018, © 1991 Eagle Mountain International Church, Inc. aka Kenneth Copeland Publishations: Q: How can I stop grieving over a loved one? A: dealing with the death of a loved one, whether you are prepared for it...
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• HOLY GRIEF: SORROW NOT! (PART 2) BY KENNETH COPELAND

  by Cinda Abbey June 12, 2021
  Sorrow Not! by Kenneth Copeland, Kenneth Copeland Ministries, Faith to Faith -- Daily Devotional, April 6; published on 4/18/2016, © 1991 Eagle Mountain International Church, Inc. aka Kenneth Copeland publications. (Part 2) So, eight and a half months before my mother left, I began standing again...
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• HOLY GRIEF: (PART 1) SORROW NOT! BY KENNETH COPELAND

  by Cinda Abbey June 11, 2021
  (Part 1) Sorrow Not! by Kenneth Copeland, Kenneth Copeland Ministries, Faith to Faith -- Daily Devotional, April 6; published on 4/18/2016, © 1991 Eagle Mountain International Church, Inc. aka Kenneth Copeland publications.Did you know that as a believer you’ve been redeemed from the curse of grief ...
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• HOLY GRIEF FREE OFFER

  by Cinda Abbey June 10, 2021
  FREE E-BOOK OFFER  Hello XAPiT & Holy Grief friends! I've got a quick announcement (and question) for you today ...  As you may or may not know, the Lord put it on my heart to expand my widows group to include ALL Christians who have lost loved ones.   It's been on my hear...
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• HOLY GRIEF: FREE E-BOOK OFFER

  by Cinda Abbey June 6, 2021
  Hello XAPiT friends. I forgot to mention in my last post that when you agree to a confidential phone interview with me, you will receive this e-book, HOLY GRIEF, absolutely FREE. So please check out my last HOLY GRIEF post for details. Thank you to those of you who I have already interviewed. You wi...

• HOLY GRIEF

  by Cinda Abbey June 2, 2021
  Hello XAPiT friends! I've got a quick announcement (and question) for you today ...  As you may or may not know, the Lord put it on my heart to expand my widows group to include all Christians who have lost loved ones.   It's been on my heart for a number of years to help Christi...
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• HOLY GRIEF: JESSE DUPLANTIS (PART 3)

  by Cinda Abbey May 31, 2021
  Faith the Facts: Jesus Took Your Grief with Jesse Duplantis, (Part 3), Jesse Duplantis Ministries, published March 3, 2021, YouTube. Revelation 21:4 And God shall wipe away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow, nor crying, neither shall there be any more pai...
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• HOLY GRIEF: JESSE DUPLANTIS (PART 2)

  by Cinda Abbey May 26, 2021
  Jesse Duplantis, Faith the Facts, Jesse Duplantis Ministries, published on YouTube, March 3 2021:John 14:27 - [Jesus said], 'Peace I leave with you, My peace I give unto you: not as the world gives, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.So you see God gave us a gi...
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• HOLY GRIEF: JESSE DUPLANTIS (PART 1)

  by Cinda Abbey May 23, 2021
  Faith the Facts: Jesus Took Your Grief with Jesse Duplantis, (Part 1), Jesse Duplantis Ministries, published March 3, 2021, YouTube.Quote from Jesse Duplantis:  "I want to talk about something that is a little bit different and I have a totally different outlook on this, because God has a total...
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• HOLY GRIEF: Reading the Bible

  by Cinda Abbey May 14, 2021
  HOLY GRIEF: Reading the Bible For a period of time after my husband Jim died I struggled with reading the Bible. In fact I struggled with reading books or pretty much anything. My concentration just wasn't there. I have a friend who experienced the same thing. So the Lord showed me how I could rea...
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• HOLY GRIEF

  by Cinda Abbey May 12, 2021
  Ecclesiastes 3:4 - A time to weep, and a time to laugh; a time to mourn, and a time to dance;"Have you ever felt guilty or just a little awkward about enjoying yourself after the loss of your loved one? I did!I remember at my husband Jim's funeral, church members had made a large potluck for the af...
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• HOLY GRIEF

  by Cinda Abbey May 11, 2021
  Losing a loved one is one of the hardest things I believe we can go through in our lives. For some of us we have lost several family members and friends in our lifetime and probably will experience even more loss in the future. So how do we deal with this?Apostle Paul said:1 Thessalonians 4:13-14"Br...
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• Holy Grief

  by Cinda Abbey May 6, 2021
  For those who are not aware the Lord placed it on my heart to expand the group, "From Half to Whole: Healing After the Death of a Spouse," to, "Holy Grief: Healing From the Loss of a Loved One." If you haven't done so, you may join our group by going to GROUPS in the XAPiT menu and look up Holy Gr...
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• FROM HALF TO WHOLE

  by Cinda Abbey April 26, 2021
  I was having a rather difficult time a couple of weeks ago on my a personal issue. The LORD reminded me of a scripture that I haven't used in a long time but used to use everyday: Psalm 23 (NKJV) The LORD is my shepherd; I shall not want. He makes me lie down in green pastures; He leads me beside t...
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• From Half to Whole

  by Cinda Abbey April 24, 2021
  Hello friends. Wednesday, while I was participating in a related webinar, the LORD placed it on my heart to transform my platform of "From Half to Whole: Healing After the Death of a Spouse," from a widows group to a grief coaching group so that more women in need of healing from trauma and grief m...
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• FROM HALF TO WHOLE

  by Cinda Abbey April 19, 2021
  Please share one area in which you are struggling with right now and how the LORD is helping you with your struggle.For me it's spiritual warfare. The LORD is teaching me how to use my authority as a follower of Jesus Christ through His teachers & prophets such as Kevin Zadai, Kat Kerr, Katie So...
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• From Half to Whole

  by Cinda Abbey April 12, 2021
  Some of you may not know, the Lord put on my heart to help Christians find healing and wholeness in Jesus Christ after going through the traumatic and painful loss of a loved one.Probably because that's where I was when my second husband Jim died of cancer 10 years ago. Prior to that I had lost my...
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• COMMUNION for FOOD and other addictions by Katie Souza

  by Cinda Abbey March 24, 2021
  March 24, 2021 I was praying about my own struggle with food addiction last night and the Lord showed me and the name Katie Souza came to mind. I attended a conference in Clearwater, Florida and met Katie in person several years ago. So I looked up Katie Souza food addiction and found this on the i...
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• God's grace is free !!!

  by Cinda Abbey March 22, 2021
  A friend of mine on Facebook posted this and I thought I would share.With tears I share this....I was at Bass Pro today and heard a loud crash and something shattering. Being nosy, I walked towards the sound and saw some people whispering and looking back to the end of the next aisle. When I walked ...
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• From Half to Whole: Healing After the Death of a Spouse

  by Cinda Abbey March 18, 2021
  FROM HALF TO WHOLE: HEALING AFTER THE DEATH OF A SPOUSEBLOG FROM ADMINISTRATOR, CINDA ABBEY, LIFE COACHGOD'S LITTLE NUGGET OF BLESSINGS: Please post one little nugget the Lord provided for you that blessed you or is blessing you with now in your healing after the death of your spouse, that might be ...
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• FROM HALF TO WHOLE

  by Cinda Abbey March 10, 2021
  From Half to Whole: Healing From the Death of a Spouse is a new Coaching Program and Support Group for Christian Widows.
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